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What is the truth… in memoir? 13: A never-to-be-reached vanishing point

24 Monday Sep 2012

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Finally, a last question of the many in this conundrum of truth and memoir:  How smooth a story should I, the memoirist, tell?  American story-telling convention demands a clear narrative arc, a steady progression toward positive change in the protagonist.  Real life is a big mess, and life-changing events roar in out of the blue.  My stay in an Air Force Psychiatric ward, for instance.  Deus ex machina play a part in every life.  This obvious truth about life is somehow impermissible, un-American.  When you think about it, it is really the American idea of life story that is preposterous.  Whose life is of a piece, an unwavering narrative arrowing straight toward triumph and redemption (especially as it is lived along)?  But ought I conform to American convention, so as to make things easy on my readers? I could present a collage, or a crazy quilt, or a box-full of index cards to be sorted by the beholder.  I finally decided on a compromise: an unfolding story to invite my readers in, but with bits of the real mess and slop thrown in as well.

In summary, I can say of my memoir:  This is not all of me.  This is one story of my life.  I could have written it as though the black, instead of the white, cat was on the strand.  But that is for another day.

Writing the memoir, trying to recapture the past, trying to discover truth, is like walking closer and closer to a crashing sea that slips ever further away.  The truth, the never-reachable vanishing point

What is the truth… in memoir? 12: The person on the page is not the person in the flesh

17 Monday Sep 2012

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Another item about truth and memoir: the writer versus the in-the-flesh person: they are not at all the same.  In person, I am a quietish, unassuming sort, a listener.  On the page, I’m forthright, aflame.

What is the truth… in memoir? 11: Creating beauty out of the rough stuff

10 Monday Sep 2012

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And here is another notion for the memoirist to keep in mind: I believe that the primary goal of writing is to fashion beauty out of hardship.  Eudora Welty wrote, “Trouble is the backbone of literature.”  I ardently want, in my writing, to capture, to create beauty out of the tough stuff. And is this not a kind of leap of faith: to see life, in the end, as beautiful?

What is the truth… in memoir? 10: A myth

03 Monday Sep 2012

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Even more daunting: I was aware all the while, as I wrote the story of my life and sought the truth, that I was constructing a myth.  Which myth would be most productive, useful, honest, truest?  Were they the same?  Which did I want to leave for eternity?

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